I am an avid reader of tomandlorenzo.com and gofugyourself.com. The writers of these fashion sites are funny, smart and socially conscious. So it rubs me the wrong way that there is no discussion allowed in regard to the unhealthily skinny women they feature on their sites.
Angelina Jolie is so skinny, it’s scary. She looks to be wasting away. I don’t know if this is on purpose, but she is very unhealthy looking. Same thing with Keira Knightley. Rachel Zoe. Kelly Ripa. Kyra Sedgewick. Nicole Richie. I could name dozens. And if anyone on these sites says anything about the weight of the women, they are hushed up and told to not “body shame.”
Same thing with domestic abuse. Charlize Theron is dating Sean Penn. I did an earlier post on him. He tied up his ex-wife Madonna for 9 hours and beat her. He allowed her to go after performing a sexual act on him and pretending she had to use the bathroom. He dangled a photographer from his hotel balcony after finding him hiding in his hotel room – instead of calling security. Charlize Theron witnessed her mother kill her father after domestic abuse. One doesn’t have to be a psychologist to see that this screams pathology. But the writers on the site don’t really address these things. Should they?
What is our responsibility as writers? What if you have a huge audience, as both of those sites do? Do they comment on the unhealthy bodies they display on their pages? Do they censor Charlize and Sean Penn?
I don’t know. I do know that I get very upset seeing Penn held up as a celebrity. It says a great deal about us, and the culture of celebrity: how much we will allow a “famous” person to get away with before we run them out on a rail. Something to ponder.